Wednesday, December 31, 2014
The 12 Days After Christmas ~ Day 6 ~ New Year's Eve
But as little of an occasion my family may see today (yay us), I am looking forward in hopes to a year of LIVing, of Life! I am looking forward to my new challenge group starting on Monday, the 5th (see my Facebook page). I am looking forward to welcoming our baby girl into the family this spring! I am looking forward to weddings, a graduation, a retreat and some other events. I am looking forward to kicking off some great traditions with my own little family and reaching a comfortable level of stability and flexibility. What are you looking for? Perhaps that is all that is on my mind at the moment as a little girl does the wave in my tummy :-p 1 hour until midnight here...
God Bless you all. See you in 2015!
As always,
Melissa
Tuesday, December 30, 2014
The 12 Days After Christmas ~ Day 5 ~ Mommy's Expectations
Another reminder in "mommyhood" ~ Just because you did it for them does not mean they will necessarily understand or appreciate it... However, if that is why you became a parent... :-/
Drove to Livermore to run a helpful errand or two and quickly discovered with a friend a last minute playdate could be arranged but not until later in the afternoon. So this mommy played "surprise" & tried to make lunch and the trips in between fun and enjoyable, despite the errands. While my 6 year old seemed to grasp this concept, my soon-to-be 3 year old could care less.
So what ensued started out reasonable but soon wore this mommy out and brought me to the edge of my own personal sanity. A now broken Christmas train decoration combined with then missing but later found socks of Micah's and a prescription for me made me seriously reconsider this lovely playdate of ours. But as much as I wanted to "teach them a lesson, " my softie, Christmas break heart took over. A closed coffee shop later, mommy and the kiddos got a 45 minute play date at the windy park. (I don't think Micah even noticed the wind though. Haha)
We ended up with errands once we made it back home but I was blessed with some help from the hubby. I am now sitting here in bed realizing I made it to 25 weeks with this little princess and tomorrow is a new day and I have no plans to go anywhere... at all! Looks like 14 more weeks max at this point!
As always,
Melis
P.S. When your doc recommends a maternity support belt that your hubby graciously buys you the same day and you immediately notice a positive change from, do not... I repeat do not forget to put it on in the morning before you leave the house!! Oi... preggo brain...
Monday, December 29, 2014
The 12 Days After Christmas ~ Day 4 ~ Hubby Blessed & Blissed!!
It isn't every day my hubby gets an actual day off from work. In fact, just because it is a new week does not guarantee that he will have one at all. (Ask our life since August! ) However, being that as it may, one thing I can say for certain is that the man I married loves me very much and quite often spends part or all of a day he actually has off to do what I like (and he would prefer not to). And by that very fact, I truly am blessed.
Last night, after spending most of the week with family, the kids and I stumbled in exhausted and I clearly wanted to sleep. Hubby was finishing his 6th shift since Friday morning. (I knew this because we were fortunate to see him for his brief dinner break when we arrived back home.) Even though our time with family has been a quite fun or relaxing experience (kids one - other me - you guess), I personally was dealing with more discomfort than my average day (which I think is saying a lot). I had done something to my upper back which was in turn hurting my chest and then as I arrived home my lower back pain started kicking in.
Tylenol to the rescue? Well, it was as much as it could be but soon enough hubby arrived home to a startled wife who slept maybe 10 minutes. I woke up 2-3 more times like this before midnight. And yet, at my plea this morning, my hubby agreed to follow me to the mall with the kiddos this morning on his day off... where I did not use my gift card and I started hurting again and requested he take me to my appt and so on and so on...
And I guess to some this might seem like no big deal. But the wait for my doctor's appointment was excessive with he and Micah attempting to sleep in the car and Joy likely bored for a good chunk of it. And after a productive appointment? He then took my doctor's advice and took me to get a maternity support belt and have a pleasant evening yet a little further from home.
And I don't know why I feel the need to document this all other then to tell you all I feel... so... blessed! I am just shy of 25 weeks pregnant and this pregnancy has been no stinkin' joke I tell you, emotionally or physically. He has not just been a trooper but a helper but really more like a self-sacrificing man who rarely tells you when he has needs to begin with.
Sometimes I wish others saw some of this side of him, the side that shows his deep love for his wife and kiddos no matter what it takes... the one who wants to give up some days but always presses on... the one who continually looks back to the Lord, even somewhat frustratingly some days and says "ok"... the one who lifts me up in prayer when I am tired or having a hard day... This man is amazing and I am so proud to be his wife and best friend!
I am still amazed that he is that guy I struck up a "random" friendship with some 17.5 year ago, who I celebrated being with 9 years in Thanksgiving and have been married to almost 7.5 of that... through thick and thin, no matter what happened. This man is NOT a saint but he is definitely My Best Friend!
As always,
Melis
Sunday, December 28, 2014
The 12 Days After Christmas ~ Day 3
I posted a little bit on my 1st challenge group of the year on my Facebook page. I am pretty excited about getting back into it and helping some of you start a "New Year, New You" ~ I truly hope you will consider joining me. It is a mere 3 weeks and will go by so quickly and it is all about encouragement and getting reinspired in a new year. The trip was a fairly good one and we made our way home this afternoon, stopping to eat dinner with Hubby on his break this evening. Micah walked in and promptly got into several boxes & baskets while I brought up the bare necessities from the car. Abby jumped all over us to welcome us home. Since both kiddos napped today, they're both more awake than I would like but are in the process of going to sleep for the night. I plan to join them shortly in that land ;-)
I hope you all had a wonderful Christmas and I'll be checking in again tomorrow with some more details (I hope) on things to come. God bless you all!
As always,
Melissa
Saturday, December 27, 2014
12 Days After Christmas ~ Day 2... Time for a NEW Year!
Friday, December 26, 2014
12 Days After Christmas ~ Day 1
Christmas was spent with some of our extended family. David arrived to my parents' house just after 11 at night on Christmas Eve, due to some "shenanigans" at work. I was so glad to see him that I didn't care so much about the timing. At this point, Micah off his schedule had just fallen asleep not too long beforehand. Micah slept with us so I slept worse than usual, which here meant cold and sore, leaving me to contemplate leaving early.
We did stay, however, heading over to my aunt and uncle's house later for the afternoon and evening. David left for home to get home around dark since he had to work 12+ hours each the following 3 days. It was calm and enjoyable, watching the kids play, enjoying the relative calm and of course, a yummy dinner. I went to bed a little more hopeful for sleep last night and was pleasantly surprised to do so once Micah was out.
Today was restful, cleaning up my computer and some e-mails with cute children playing near me. For now, the plan is to stay a few more days so the kiddos can have the run of the place and enjoy the space and backyard here. I'll breathe more and pray this cold either stays at bay or gets its worse out while I have the "backup" here. We will head home sometime Sunday and work on reestablishing a routine so when school starts back up, Joy won't be completely caught off guard.
Overall, I am mostly just surprised at the calm. I came into this week sort of ready for disaster, not because of any particular person but because of the cold and all of the morning sickness I had earlier on in the week. My creative powers are zapped at the moment it seems. I have nothing witty to say and my challenge groups are still in my head not developed as planned. I am busy thinking ahead to the New Year only days away but nothing concrete still... I hope you all had a blessed Christmas. I will post again tomorrow, hopefully something more...
As always,
Melis
Wednesday, December 24, 2014
Merry Christmas Eve!
Last year, I was feeling completely crummy, followed by a trip to the ER on Christmas Day and a very short yet exhausting trip to see family. I just wasn't in the right place. The year before, we had either just lost our first baby or were about to and were completely unaware to this fact. Those Christmas experiences are not lost on me. I am fortunate to be able to drive my children to see family, even if I am fatigued and sore. I am blessed to not hit any traffic along the way and to have family who adores them as I do and give me some much needed relief.
Last night was my Joy Joy's 2nd of 2 dance performances. Her studio performed "How the Grinch Stole Christmas" & she was able to have some family in attendance last night, even Daddy and Micah! She was beautiful and excited and has shown so much growth this year. On our way out, one of her friends handed her a pink rose! Boy, was she touched! And again, I sit back amazed at God's goodness in our lives...
Just a week or so ago, we were blessed with some extra food and gift cards. The kiddos and I found our way into Walmart and out without falling apart and came away with some much needed new shoes, school pants, diapers, a few Christmas supplies, as well as a few food items. It wasn't expected and it definitely brought me to a place of humbling myself some but I realized God had brought these people and gifts into our lives for a reason and that getting angry, confused and frustrated would not get me anywhere. For the people involved, they were showing God's love to us at a time when we really needed some things.
In 43 days, my little guy, my Micah Boo turns 3. I cannot believe it some days. We welcome his new sister around 2 months afterwards. Joy turns 7 yet another month or so later and we have half a dozen weddings, graduations and family events spread throughout our spring and summer on the calendar... so far! I am truly very excited to be able to share with you all our 2015 adventures just around the corner...
However, for now I just want to wish you all a wonderfully Merry Christmas! There will be a blog series or so to follow in the "12 Days After Christmas" which will also be posted to my Facebook page. I will be documenting adventures, goals & blessings all around as we head into our New Year, including our "Word of the Year" we have already chosen! I am so excited to transition into a new chapter in our lives with adventures and blessings I am sure we have not yet discovered! So come along with me and tell your friends too! I am here and on Facebook and would love to chat with you as I share about family, health, fitness and adventure! Maybe you can share with me too?
God Bless You All!
As always,
Melis
Tuesday, December 23, 2014
24 Weeks & In the Midst...
Tuesday, December 16, 2014
Don't Lose Hope!
Sunday, December 14, 2014
I am not so happy...
I am tired. I miss my friends. I wish other friends lived closer. I miss my hubby and wish he could be home more often. I wish his bosses knew how good they really have it with him, I mean really! And yes, I will say it. I wish I had more money, more means to help my kids see what life could really be like. And yes, we have those moments, those precious times with them and I know they love us! But I am sometime very ashamed of this place we call home and making them live in a place I don't feel 100% safe in myself, a place where being loud can get us reported to the landlord... all because a 2 & 6 year old were playing.
I have slowly started working on my business again. (GO Beachbody!) I have tried to stop making excuses about why I cannot do it. I will still hurt. I will still be limited this pregnancy but I am not incapable of being the BEST me I CAN be in THIS place. Because I am in a different place, I need to adjust and deal with it. I need to find a ways to share with you all WHERE I am NOW and what that means. I do not have to stop; I just need to realign? Does that make sense?
What is on your mind? Check me out on Facebook if you like...
That's all for now,
Melis
P.S. How cute is this precious girl?!
Friday, December 12, 2014
In the last 36 hours...
...I figured out easy, happy dinners for 2 days in a row
Wednesday, December 10, 2014
What was stolen? Broken? Hurt?
Monday, December 8, 2014
22 Weeks & Counting
•A reminder of God's promises
•A miracle
•Cuddly
•A time of reflection
•Proof I have the right doctors in my corner
Melis
Sunday, December 7, 2014
Miracles Come in Different Shapes & Sizes...
Micah & Joy were both conceived and born before I discovered my Factor V Leiden clotting disorder. I had no complications or serious issues with either pregnancy. Baby girl due this coming spring is a miracle because we found out why we lost our 2 precious angels and were able to put me on an injection that would medically mean this little girl would most likely make it safely into our arms... If you ask me, without God none of them are possible, including my own husband who I feel blessed to have in my life, a man I met at church during middle school. Clearly, I didn't know God's plan then... as we didn't start dating until 8 years after we met ;-)
Miracles, Blessings, Thankfulness... this is where I am tonight as I pray for God's leading as we move forward. What are you thankful for???
As always,
Melis